People now adays feel absurd when they are around others as a result of been boring or short of word, However being interesting to other people means being an interesting person. Get involved, switch on and start the charm.
Talk to others and really listen to them. If people like you, they will want to know more about you. You can always use the information you got from them in later conversation, but DON'T gossip!
Read at least one book (non school if you are a student) a month. Try to read a different type of book each time and then recommend them to your friends afterwards. Maybe start a book club.
Carosblog therefore brought some hints to chill with on the verge of been cool with others.
STEP 1
Like yourself and be confident, avoid having a low self esteeem and always try to cheer yourself up
STEP 2
Be confident, or else people will see you as a weakling with nothing worth while to say. You can fake confidence by standing up straight, holding your head up high and smile a lot. Just be friendly! Once you get use to it, confidence will come naturally
STEP 3
Read articles everyday and currently visit bogs as this so you can talk about up to the minute topics. you can also visit an online newspaper and just read the headlines, so you can at least say "I heard about that" when someone mentions something they saw or read about. Ananova offers a wonderful news section with weird and strange news tidbits you can discuss with your friends.
STEP 4
Take up a hobby. Some hobby ideas are:
Photography is quite cheap these days because everyone has a digital camera somewhere. Make a Flickr or Picasa account and post them on there so you can give the link to your hobby to friends.
Biking
Painting
creative writing
Yoga/Pilate's
Collecting (something other than STAMPS!!!!)
Salsa dancing
Target shooting
Model building
Sailing
Hiking
STEP 5
Use your imagination, be creative. Be creative in conversation, think around the corners and surprise friends and family with your responses. don't be scared when having a convo with friends and be mightful of what you say because every pinch of word that drops might be of great importance to your partner/friend.
STEP 6
Learn new words. Subscribe to a "word of the day" email on line and then try to use the new words in conversation daily. People will think you are well schooled, even if you've only ever finished High School.
STEP 7
Listen to music! Even if you listen to music already, try new styles. If you never listen to Jazz, try some light Jazz. If you never listen rock music, try some.
Moreover you would witness a change of idea after practicing these steps.

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